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November 4th, 2007CommentsPerhaps, and you're kind to say so, but sometimes I have to wonder if it was/is enough to compensate for all the other external influences over which I had no control. I've always said kids today have it tougher than we ever did, but never realised until recently just how pernicious it is.
This is one of the many reasons I home school my kids. I get to control what they see, and while they see a lot of stuff and different kinds of people it's me they ask question too- not kids their age who have no idea what is going on. I wonder if every generation worried about how thought things were for their kids. I think Plato said something about weeping for the future when he saw the kids of his time *snickers* Not every parent would make sure their free time was devoted to their child- that is really great, and something she will always remember.
I seriously considered home-schooling, but by the time it even occurred to me, we were already caught in the two-income thing and my career was already well-established. Eh, we do what we can. I think every generation worries about their kids; however, today the pressures just seem so much more than even when I was a kid. More than anything I'm grateful my job allowed me to back-off the time and my husband gave his support. For so many reasons, so many people--especially single parents--have no such choices and therein lies a different kind of situation.
Your children will definitely benefit from the time you spend; they are so lucky! There is so much going on in today's world. And so many different types of homes and families.
I hope my kids look back on their childhood with happy thoughts- as we all do. I'm waiting until they're 25, 26 and then I'll ask *g* Eh, you won't need to wait that long. The first time the 'world' overwhelms them, they'll generally let you know. Or there'll be the, "Oh, Mom, you'll never guess what happened!"
I live for moments like that.
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